Sunday, January 29, 2006
Tactless : S: (adj) tactless, untactful (lacking or showing a lack of what is fitting and considerate in dealing with others) "in the circumstances it was tactless to ask her age"
Someone enlighten me on the difference between these 2 words ? My language is not exactly that good ...
What's the point of saying you want to change, you hate your past etc and on the other hand you are asking people to accept you for who you are and that's you ? That's just plain talk. No one's perfect, many people wan to change but how many has the extra motivation and desire to do what they say they will ?
Is friendship measured by the amount of time you know each other ? Let me mention my bestest friends here before i continue:
Shengwang (since pri school) - Very handsome with cute dimples but attached for abt 7 years
Minchuan (since sec school) - Smart with overflowing brain juices and single but available anot i don't know.
Chinkeong (since sec school) - Smart until hair turned white, available i think.
Caleb (since 2002) - Smart and funny and muddy - attached for > 1 year
Weekeong (since 2002) - Smart, gentle, fat (he claims) - attached abt 2-3 years ba
Kokfei (since 2002) - handsome in his own ways - single whole life till the day he die
Jabriel (since 2002) - funny, humourous - single too
p.s. all the handsome dudes here are from ECE. hahahahaah. Non-ECE are not included cos these are the people i spent most of my time with.
I treasure all my friends, i really do. I can't even remember the last time i actually quarrel with my pals. Maybe some disagreement during projects but that's it. Still, i won't say give up a friendship no matter how short it is. My stand is, i trust every single person i know until you have broken my trust. wads the basis of the friendship/relationship ? Do i treat someone better because i know him for a longer period of time ? No i don't, i treat all my friends equally.
Ok, i am the first to raise my hand to admit i am emotional and sensitive. But that's something i wanna change, any friends wanna help me ? = p .. Well was telling my friend i hate myself for being so sensitive and emotional but her reply suprised me. "Its good to consider other people's feelings. I am like that too" Awww thanks, you made me feel a little bit better about myself now.
Is sorry an overused word nowadays ? Sorry one moment, fuck off the next ? Anyway i hate people using sorry on me because someone actually used that too often on me before till i am immune to it. What's the point of telling someone u r sorry then doing it again ?
Hating people who lie and liars doesn't mean you will tell the truth either. Not telling = not lying =p but just never say.
Oh yah happy chinese new year too all. Darn bored so here i am with all the ironies. Have a good day ahead.
Cheers
uncle J ; 9:24 PM
Friday, January 27, 2006
Ok, suddenly felt like talking about appreciation. Someone used to tell me she appreciate me for forgiving her time and again for lying to me. However, i got all so upset with her because if you appreciate my forgiveness why must you lie to me again and again ? You should have stopped.
Then a friend woke me up, she said "J, she appreciating you doesn't mean she will RETURN the appreciation. Don't be an idiot and keep getting played by her words." She added "Everyone can see how much you love her, how much love you have for her but have you ever ask her if she wants it ? Do you know if you have all the love in this world for her but if she doesn't wants it, you are giving her unnecessary pressure ?"
Well, obviously i couldn't see it then (May '05). Now i can see very clearly i think. =p So sorry i was a pest but i couldn't let go as easily as you could but i have now. Yeah, i know you said you feel guilty, guilty for treating me like this, no face to see me etc BUT feeling guilty and feeling sad for hurting me are 2 different things.
People can appreicate what you have done for them but it doesn't mean they will return the appreciation.
People can say they miss you like mad but it doesn't mean they wanna see you.
People can say they are afraid you will leave them but who left in the end ?
So what's the moral here ? Communication is the key. One person's definition of a word he/she used may be totally different to your perception of what's the word supposed to me. If not sure, ask, rather than misunderstanding each other's meaning.
uncle J ; 9:41 PM
Monday, January 23, 2006
ok, i am going to rant about jiang ru qing now. For those who have no idea who is jiang ru qing (jrq), just catch the 9pm ch 8 show. Well, i am not auntie ok ? I prefer sports and discovery over drama serials but there's nothing nice so i just catch an episode of that show and i got hook. Why ? Cos that jiang ru qing reminds me of someone i know.
Scene xxx
Jrq's Mum: *found pad in jrq's bag when jrq is supposedly pregnant*
Jrq's Mum to jrq: Why is this thingy doing in your bag if u r pregnant
Jrq: *Act blur* oh oh met my fren in the morning and she left it in my bag *breaks down and accuse mum of being biased towards jrx*
Wow this scene really reminds me of something that happened to me.
Idiot : why u go zouk then tell me u at home ? Go just say why must lie ? Not like i ever stop u right ? I always ask u to go with your frens but u dun wan say u dun like to club ?
Miss Popular : No i never go. No i never. No i never go. No i never.
Idiot : Hello, you wrote it down in ur blog.
Miss Popular : *damn, how did you find out about my blog ? i told ya i didn't have one* No i never. No i never. No i never.
Idiot : *heart broken + silence*
Miss Popular : ok i went home already then i went out again.
Idiot : *stumped for words*
Miss Popular : *hung up the fone*
*thoughts N actions by subjects* - supposed to protray this kinda look, feelings and actions
Anyway, i don't blame Miss Popular. Forgive me that i was so boring and not considered fun enough for you.
uncle J ; 8:05 PM
Tuesday, January 10, 2006
Ok, PH today so managed to have dinner with my parents. Mum wants to buy cloth to make curtains thus went to woodlands central (the one near the causeway). Nice food stall. Should try also hahahaha... So sorry only 1 pic because i was too hungry to take more =)

Anyway, while waiting for the food to arrive, i saw quite a number of uncles ( in their 30s to 40s) eating alone. Ok fine i am an uncle too but i am an uncle in my 20s ok ? The point is i am just in my 20s but i am already eating alone most of the time. Will i be like tt too in 10 years time ? Old, lonely, balding, bulging (hey what u thinking, i meant belly not xxxxx) etc. Awwww.....Kokfei, don't worry. I won't forget my promise to call you weekly to ensure you didn't die at home if you didn't get married. =)
uncle J ; 7:01 AM
Post for 9 Jan 2006
Well had dinner with HW and QY at JW. Ok this dinner was quite fulfilling because i found out that HW doesnt like to drink lao hor and QY doesn't like to eat lady fingers =p.
Curry Fish head damn nice. Should try it out.

uncle J ; 6:56 AM
Post for 8 jan 2006
Brought my little bro to Suntec and Marina Square for shopping even though the heaven was crying like mad. Don't cha wish you had an elder bro like me ? wahahaha ... As usual i won't talk much. Here are the pics from Marina Square food court.

current chicken noodle introduced to me by someone once dear to me. Nice. You guys should try it !
uncle J ; 6:39 AM
Thursday, January 05, 2006

Pics say it all. Not gonna add anymore things. =)
uncle J ; 5:10 AM
Sunday, January 01, 2006
As my buddy mint ask for my new year resolutions, here they are:
To be less guillible
To be less softhearted
To be less charitable (in case kena cheated > 10 years by NKF again)
Works towards a smaller beer belly
To be less procrastinating
Stop being narcissist (hahahaha)
Be less sensitive
Be more friendly (network more)
Be less shy
Stay at home less
Get advanced license
Get a challenging job !!!
That's all i think =)
Happy new year everyone !!!!!
uncle J ; 7:35 AM
Hi guys, can vote and tell me which design you guys like best ? Can just leave a tag ! Thanks !!! Oh yah in case of copyright issues, photos courtesy of devianart ! thanks !!!!







uncle J ; 7:25 AM
Saturday, December 24, 2005
Oh yah just in case any of my friends are interested in how i fare, i did quite ok i guess. Not too bad considering the circumstances, environment and human relation problems i had this semester. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to everyone of you out there ! May all your wishes come true !!!!!
Regards,
Uncle J
uncle J ; 8:09 AM
Pics for all of you guys to share our nus^paikias happiness ! (Phang and keong come back from shanghai quick !)
ps . pics of 40+ tequilla shots not available. Anyway nice meeting up with the merlion, merlion to be, Mr snowwhite and Butcher. =p Sorry for the late post. Pics dated 21-12-05. Hangover till now then got mood post hahaha









uncle J ; 7:43 AM